FEMINISM

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ekhon

tokhon

BFF

achha, bolun to dekhi – amar lekha adhunik kobitar prothom prokash kothay?

Any guesses  ?

Ki bollen?...school /college magazine ?_nah!...tobe kono little mag?_nope!...tobe to nischoy kono deoal-potrika,tai na?_aggye tao noy!

Parlen nato..jantam..karon, class-XI e amar prothom’boroder’moto kore lekha kobitar prothom prokasher ghotona kothao prokash korai hoye otheni e-jabot !.......

___tar prokash-stholti chhilo – amar priyo bondhur (‘bondhu’ shobdotir lingoved kore ‘bandhobi’ likhlam na r!) tar prothom official ‘boyfriend’ ke deoa Valentine's Day-er Card –e !!!  ;-)

Sodyo hoa boyfriend ke anyhow aro impress kore prothom premer chemistry te above 90% marks paoar chestatei amar bondhutir amake diye bar koyek kobita likhiye ei kando ghotano ebong  fortunately  tate successful hoa. school-life shesher sathe sathei teenage er tader sei prem o kobei chukebuke gechhe kintu tao aj obdi chheleti  janei na je ‘antorjatik prem dibose’ tar paoa prem-potrer kobitatir malkin tar prothom premika noy....borong tar ex-girlfriend sorbokalin best friend !!! :-D

Dirgho 15years er bondhutwer flavour ke lekhate prokash kora bodhoy osomvob ontoto amar pokkhe..kotha theke shuru korbo r kothay sesh korbo kulkinara na peye bivinno vabe lekhata bivinno bar lekhar chesta kore dekheechhi...class-VI theke eki  classroom,eki bench, maximum eki tuition,school ground e chhotachhuti-bivinno byapare healthy competition-jhogra-khunsuti-jaiga r bondhu change r abar dudin por sob vule mitmat,arektu boro hoye-Saraswati Pujor sokale shari r Duraga pujor Astomite dujoner eksathe pandal hopping..r karor dorkar e porto na r ekhono pore na amader !___school er prayer shuru hoye geleo cycle-stand e dariye amader golper jere kora kono madamer kanmola khaoa r school chhutir por bari ferar pothe ordhek rasta chole asar por hotat mone pora j or cycle ta amader golper jere cycle stand ei theke gechhe...abar chhut seta ante...but,porer din abar tuition jaoar pothe rastai amader barite nijer cycletike rakha ebong baki rastata amar sathe hete othoba rickshaw te jaoa...r erom cholte cholte ekdin cycle tir churi jaoa...tarpor abar notun cycle kintu ek ghotonar punarabritti kintu ebar r cycle ti harayni setai banchoa!!! --- eta ekta chhotto udahoron chhilo matro...erom sob bolte shuru korle kokhonoi sesh hobe na karon ekhono dui bondhur friendship ‘present tense’ ei achhe [thank Heavens ! :) ]...ha,to ja bolchhilam,erpor home town theke dure sompurno alada subject r alada institution e admission neoa amader dujoner chesta na koreo eki elakate thaka r kachhakachhi thakar subade week-end e amader eksathe shopping, movie, eating out etc.{Kolkatai asar prothom dike bus theke vul stoppage e neme pora r tarpor prai juddho kore nijeder kankhito gontobye pouchhono, Garia ke Gariahat er shortform vebe hasyokor hoye otha r girls’ night-in e typical girly gossip-PNPC,sujog pelei dujoner jana dujoner importance harano gopon kotha niye eke-oporer pechhone laga ityadi ityadi ityadi....--- kichhui bad jeto na !!!}

Onekdiner purono premer somporko tikiye rakhar byartho chestai koyek gallon chokher jol nosto korar por klanto apni jar sathe sei somporko o sei somporkito msnushtike niye ‘khilli marte’ paren r je shudhumatro apnar gola shune kinba mukh dekhei apnar shorir-moner totkalin status tahor kore nirdwidhai bole othe - “dekhli,ami to agei bolechhilam....you deserve better than him !!” ; je nijer kono osofolotai prothom ring apnake kore r take vorsa deoar somoy apnar moneo ase na je apnar thik kotogulo birthday te se apnake wish tukuo korte bemalum vule gechhilo r chirokalin prochur boys’ attention paoa sundori sei bondhur pix e jokhon apnar cheye prai 10gun beshi likes pore tokhon apni sotyie-sotyie  jealous feel korte just vule gea nijeo arekta like & comment add koren ;  nijer olpo boyose kora kono vul decision –er dai apnar upor onayase chapiye chhodmo rag dekhiye je apnake jekono somoy  bolar odhikar rakhe ,”r tui o amake ota korte mana korisni !” ; school/coaching-class chhutir por je chheleti apnar jonyo apnar barir ashepashe cycle e chokkor katto apnar sei high-school crush er upor seo olpo-swolpo infatuated chhilo ---ei okopot swikarokti besh koyek bochhor por tar nijer mukh thekei shonar por apnar modhye tar proti negative kono feelings asar bodole moja lage.....amar mote sei apnar best friend.

Jekono somporkoi sara jibon bodhoy ekrokom thake na...bivinno dhoroner comfort-zone er nanan othaporai tar mrityu na ghotleo punorjonmo hoyei thake bivinno somoy. Onek somoy dekha jai khub olpo chena moanush apnake onketa beshi r sothik vabe jene felechhe,onek khetre bohudin jogajog nei emon keu moner khub kachhei  thake regular contact e thaka manushgunor cheyeo...thik seivabe sotyikarer bondhutwo onekta Wine er moto..joto somoy jai er su-swad r su-gondhu totoi barte thake bondhuder eke-oporer regular touch e thaka ba na-thakar toakka na korei !!!

Dhorun,jodi konodin kothao dekhlen – duti pretty-looking olpoboyosi meye kokhono mridu hasi mukhe to kokhono ektu serious mukhe onekkhon dhoreio kichhu govir alochonai mogno...ki vabben ? tara ki niye eto golpo korchhe ? --- hote pare tader  career related kono kotha othba boyfriend or oi jatiyo relationship niye kichhu or kono family matter....kachhe giye ektu shonar chesta kore hoito bujhlen je tader alochonar bishoybostuti r kichhui noy- shiter sokale commode e bose ‘prakritik pratokrityo’ti sara je kotokhani chaper---ei niyei dujoner kotha cholchhe etokhon dhore...!!! ‘bomke’ jaben na please...nishchitvabe janben -nirghat ei dujon ---  BFF_mane_Best Friends Forever.